Is a Mentor Needed After a Spiritual Awakening?

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The question of whether you need a guide after a spiritual awakening isn’t a simple yes or no. Awakening is rarely linear, it’s messy, sacred, and deeply personal. Sometimes we walk it alone, stripped bare and soul-stretched. Other times, we crave that earth angel energy, someone who’s walked the fire and can hold space while we recalibrate.

This post is for the warriors, the wanderers, and the ones who’ve been burned by asking for help. It’s also for the conscious creators navigating the fog before the launch, the vision during, and the recalibration after. Because awakening doesn’t just shift your inner world, it reshapes how you create, connect, and show up in your work.

Walk it Alone?

Sometimes an awakening requires us to walk it alone.

Other times, we need that earth angel energy to support us, hold our hand, and be that lifeline when we are left in the cold by friends and family that no longer "get us".

Afraid to Ask For Help

In other situations, we fear asking for help.

That lonely warrior spirit makes us determined to walk through the valley of fire, death and rebirth because we feel no one understands us, and we are used to doing things on our own anyway.

I relate to that warrior spirit

I get it... I also do this.

I'm so used to being betrayed and let down, left to pick up pieces of my shattered heart on the floor that feels like it's about to lose ground under my feet at any moment.

The warrior rarely gives up or gives in.

I forget I can ask for help if I want it

My pride gets in the way, I sit in woe is me and throw a pretty good tantrum if the situation calls for it.

I have a Leo moon, so cue the dramatics...

Sometimes we get burned by those we ask for help, which is painful, and we want to hide away even more.

During the Spiritual Awakening

Or just after, you may be on your 10th mini awakening. There are times when we need soul family. Those who are walking in the same shoes we are. Experiencing depression and anxiety, and finding ways to heal from trauma.

In steps the Spiritual Awakening Mentor

Who is better equipped to help after a spiritual awakening than an old soul who has come to the school of Earth and gone through what you have? I've seen those days when getting out of bed and living a multidimensional life on the outside while screaming in pain on the inside behind closed doors.

The Spiritual Awakening Journey

Teaches us the most about discernment. Following our body responses to what is good for us and what isn't, while we learn to trust the intuition we have had all our lives.

It is also the time to learn when we must go it alone and when we can stop feeling guilty and ask for help.

Final Thoughts

Spiritual awakening is rarely a straight line. It’s more like a spiral staircase—one step forward, two steps back, a pause, a leap, a fall, and a rise again. The key isn’t perfection—it’s presence. One step in the direction of your truth is enough.

Whether you walk alone or with a guide, what matters most is that you honour your rhythm. That you trust your body’s cues, your soul’s whispers, and your right to ask for help when you need it.

For those seeking gentle scaffolding and intuitive structure, I offer soft systems support for conscious creators through 1:1 sessions and soul tools designed to hold space for your sacred mess. You don’t have to do it all alone. You just have to start where you are.

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